If you’re concerned that your spouse is being financially unfaithful, Cross Roads Divorce Advisors would like to help by giving you 20 questions you should consider. We encourage you to consider all of these questions before accusing your spouse of financial infidelity.
- Do you have separate bank accounts?
- Is your name on the family bank accounts?
- Is your name on the mortgage?
- Do you have a relationship with the family financial advisor?
- Do you know how much your spouse earns and how they get paid?
- Who gets the mail and pays the bills?
- Are there credit cards you know nothing about?
- Are your family bank and investment account balances lower than you would expect?
- Are there unopened boxes or clothing hanging in the closet with tags still on it?
- Is money an emotional conversation in your marriage?
- Does your spouse gamble?
- Does your spouse day trade a stock portfolio?
- Are there abnormally large expenditures charged to debit cards at department or grocery stores?
- Do you suspect your spouse of having an emotional or physical affair?
- Are you on an allowance?
- Does your spouse do business with family members?
- Do you suspect your spouse of misusing prescription or other drugs?
- Have you ever wondered where your spouse got the money to buy a big ticket item?
- Does your spouse own their own business?
- Is it possible your spouse has been planning for divorce for a long time?
Worried that your spouse might be financially unfaithful? Contact Cross Roads Divorce Advisors for professional financial help if these questions heighten your sense of concern.
This information is not intended to be a substitute for individualized legal advice. Please consult your legal advisor regarding your specific situation.
Lou Falvo is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® and CIMA® (Certified Investment Management Analyst) who assists clients by evaluating the tax and financial aspects of divorce. Lou is dedicated to reducing the burden of each client by thoroughly examining the financial elements of the client’s divorce, with a keen focus on what is in his or her best interests. Contact Lou to find out how he can assist you with your divorce proceedings at lfalvo@crossroadsdivorce.com or (585) 542-2382.